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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 24 Nov 2013 at 19:21
Rules. There are no such things of course, beyond those that the devs have put up. Just consequences to actions.

I commend your stance toward the game. To not take military action personally or intentionally try to ruin someone else's experience. If only more people saw it that way. Alas, many people are so personally invested in this game they no longer really see it as 'just a game'. At this point an attack becomes a personal affront in their eyes. That is the reason why major war in this game is not often a fun experience. It is accompanied by personal attacks and insults that cross all lines of decency. I wish that was the only universal rule we had: To treat others with respect even if you don't see eye to eye. It makes nothing but sense to me, since it is the most basic rule of social interaction. Alas, it is but a dream.

I'm sorry, I guess this has become a rant.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 25 Nov 2013 at 00:54
Originally posted by Myzel Myzel wrote:

I wish that was the only universal rule we had: To treat others with respect even if you don't see eye to eye. It makes nothing but sense to me, since it is the most basic rule of social interaction.
it also makes good strategic sense, as there are only two ways to end an illyriad conflict:  make peace or make the opponent so disgusted (s)he leaves the game.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 25 Nov 2013 at 03:26
Just play your game the way you wish. Cant please everybody anyway. No idea who's on the other side of the screen either. You can be nice or all you want. Just remember you dealing with other humans not machines they have feelings and get touchy so tread carefully. And some of them are very nice or not nice at all. Depends are why your here to play a game or please people ?. So just play the game anyway you want.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 25 Nov 2013 at 05:40
Originally posted by Myzel Myzel wrote:

Alas, many people are so personally invested in this game they no longer really see it as 'just a game'. At this point an attack becomes a personal affront in their eyes. That is the reason why major war in this game is not often a fun experience. It is accompanied by personal attacks and insults that cross all lines of decency. I wish that was the only universal rule we had: To treat others with respect even if you don't see eye to eye. It makes nothing but sense to me, since it is the most basic rule of social interaction. Alas, it is but a dream.

I'm sorry, I guess this has become a rant.
OMG ++1, I wondered if I should have posted earlier the exact same sentiment. G A M E, have a doughnut, tell me if my hit did any good, basically the war is only as good as you know #'s and how they work.. 
it's not like I'm torturing your dog --- or anything REAL. Why the insults toward good people behind keyboards -- why so engrossed in personal opinions from or to some stranger? Play the game, it's a distraction from real life . I'm a gamer, sorry, no clue what a real life is.

To rebuild and play again. win some, lose some... if you've sunk coins into the game, you will again.. no matter when you started or how much you have already. If not this one, another one.

Watchout, Myzel, posting such good thoughts is not without its detractors -- I was warned, post -- but be ready for the backlash....

ps: please don't hit me up for the grammatical errors.. I just hope folks get my drift.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 25 Nov 2013 at 08:46
Yes, it is just a game...

I love playing games with friends, here and in rl.

The thing is, if i'm shooting a game of pool and someone comes by and messes up some of the balls or if i'm playing chess and someone comes by and knocks over some of the pieces i'm not going to smile at them, laugh and say good job for messing up my game!

If i'm in a bad mood i'm liable to knock them on their back, if i'm in a good mood i'll just verbally insult them.

After all, it is just a game... Wink
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 25 Nov 2013 at 10:23
Originally posted by Epidemic Epidemic wrote:

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The thing is, if i'm shooting a game of pool and someone comes by and messes up some of the balls or if i'm playing chess and someone comes by and knocks over some of the pieces i'm not going to smile at them, laugh and say good job for messing up my game! ...



2 player games are in no way an analogy to what we have here...the truth is anything that is not against the rules as given by the devs is a perfectly viable option. We do not have to like or agree with the options others choose, but they are still valid. The variable is how others react to the options you chose. If enough people don't like the way things are being played, then they can take their own actions in opposition. Thus our current situation...


Edited by BellusRex - 25 Nov 2013 at 10:33
"War is the father of all things..."
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 25 Nov 2013 at 14:46
Two options: He might be up to the challenge, but most likely he will send a email to nanny alliance which will send bored big boys to siege your town. 



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 25 Nov 2013 at 19:12
Originally posted by BellusRex BellusRex wrote:

Originally posted by Epidemic Epidemic wrote:

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The thing is, if i'm shooting a game of pool and someone comes by and messes up some of the balls or if i'm playing chess and someone comes by and knocks over some of the pieces i'm not going to smile at them, laugh and say good job for messing up my game! ...



2 player games are in no way an analogy to what we have here...the truth is anything that is not against the rules as given by the devs is a perfectly viable option. We do not have to like or agree with the options others choose, but they are still valid. The variable is how others react to the options you chose. If enough people don't like the way things are being played, then they can take their own actions in opposition. Thus our current situation...



It's a perfect analogy. People are saying its just a game, have fun and get over it. I'm trying to use common sense to let players know there are consequences to your actions, even in a virtual game such as this. It is logical to think if you mess with my game i'm going to mess with yours.

"Play the game any way you want, but be prepared to get virtually knocked on your back if you mess with my game."
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 25 Nov 2013 at 20:10
You're comparing actions within the game to outside interference though.  There's difference between flipping over a chess board and, say, capturing your knight.  
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 25 Nov 2013 at 20:11
It's not, really. If you were playing pool by yourself and a couple guys came along and played a game on your table while you messed around in the corner, then you'd get closer to what Illy is but you're not making your own balls and cue. Well, maybe. You could call some guys to come and take over the table for you. Getting closer.
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