@ gameplayer.... if you like it or not. Humans are playing this interactive game, humans are shaping this sandbox. What makes us human? What's the base of human interaction?
It is.... : rules.
Unwritten rules of conduct are making Elgea to a wonderful virtual place to be. These rules were written by generations of players. They may be constricting in your point of view, it's up to you to have that opinion. But in my point of view they are quite helpful as well, as I can log out everyday without any virtual evildoers looting my cities overnight, I needed days and weeks to build them up , or raiding newbies, only, because they can.
If you like that gameplay, there might be games better suiting for you, which allow unprovoced raiding or ganking - fun. And there are hundreds of them. But what is quite unique is a gaming community like that of Illyriad.
I must admit: For a new player with an unconventional, maybe (virtual) evil gameplay Illyriad is no easy place to persist. Maybe TBL will change that. But as we will keep our old alliances Elgean politics and diplomatics will swap over to the Broken Lands, I guess.
But however: play your kind of "evil" gameplay.... You are free to do that. Others (free as you) will have fun either to inhibit. As that's what you deserve, if you start inhibiting others, at least in my point of view. 
So have fun playing the bad dude stealing weaker pupils breaktime snack …! At least you might give it a try!
Live and learn ....